In Asia, it’s all about who you know

by Simon Black · View Comments

February 10, 2010
Pattaya, Thailand

A few months ago I wrote a short series about better networking. The theme was simple: “who you know” absolutely, positively counts, and getting ahead often requires investing in relationships.

I thought the topic was so important that I wrote a free 20-page special report on the subject. I call the concept “Network Infiltration,” and discussed how to infiltrate any network, personal or professional, by following some core principles: finding the open door, differentiating yourself from the crowd, and consistently adding value.

Download the Network Infiltration Report HERE

I’ve used these principles over and over again throughout the world, particularly when traveling to an unfamiliar country. Using these established tactics, I’m generally able to go from unwashed newbie to mingling with the country’s elite in a short period of time.

This quantum leap has less to do with me, and much more to do with following the core principles.

To be clear, I often trade money for time, paying for the privilege to cut in line… but I consider the money spent to be a valuable investment, one that pays for itself many times over.

A business I’m involved with in Asia provides a great example.  While I’m still sworn to confidentiality for now, I can tell you that it is something truly innovative, and the project has attracted some really phenomenal partners… industry titans in entertainment, finance, design, and technology.

Because what we we’re doing is so new, however, there is a great deal of risk associated with the deal– particularly geopolitical risk of the government shutting us down.

Most people are surprised that I’m actually quite risk averse. I prefer to be involved in deals with easy, ‘low hanging fruit’ that don’t require me to assume much financial risk, and projects in which I can see a clear, achievable end state.

In this case, we decided to drastically reduce our risk in the deal by inviting the government on board at the absolute highest level.  My partners and I have all followed the core principles of network infiltration for years, and in a short time we were able to penetrate the inner circles of government and demonstrate significant value in our partnership.

How did we do it? By leaving a lot of money on the table at law offices and investment banks with influential locals who knew even more influential locals.

As a result of our efforts, the deal was greenlighted with the government’s full blessing.  This made raising money for the project much, much easier. Investors knew that with a government endorsement, the deal appeared much less risky.  Consequently, we were able to negotiate more favorable terms with investors.

This literally saved our partners millions of dollars; compared to what was spent in getting to senior government officials, the return on investment was extraordinary.

It’s not always about dollars and cents either. I’m a member of a private club that I’ve discussed before called Atlas 400– it’s designed to bring together like-minded individuals who build lasting relationships and enjoy unique experiences together.

The club recently got together over the weekend in Miami… you guessed it– to attend the Superbowl. As you probably saw on the news, it wasn’t just any ordinary Superbowl, it was THE Superbowl… TV ratings hit an all-time high, finally unseating the 1983 MASH finale as the most-watched television event in history.

Tickets were impossible to find, yet club members were able to score front row seats.  Great seats for a fantastic game, VIP-only celebrity events, fantastic meals at Miami’s best restaurants, and of course, great networking and business conversations are par for the course in The Atlas 400.

The Atlas 400 is definitely not for everyone, but if you’re looking for the kind of  “open door” that I talk about in the Network Infiltration report, this very unique social club might just be perfect for you.

A while ago I interviewed the club president, Sean Goldsmith. To listen to that interview and learn more about the club go here:

http://www.sovereignman.com/information-request/

At the end of the day all we have are our skills and our relationships.  One of my big priorities is to invest in each of these each day by asking myself a couple of questions:

What can I do today to support the important relationships in my life?

What skill can I work on today?

What new relationship would I like to develop?

I sincerely believe skills and relationships require constant cultivation.  What skills are you developing?   What relationships are you expanding? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

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  • RE: the Panama 'like-minded-people' project.
    My wife and I are contemplating a move to Panama. We are teachers of the Alexander Technique. You don't need to know what that is, just that we need access to Panama City for our practice in order to have a large enough pool of population to provide us a few pupils. We don't want to live in the heat of the city. We are hoping you will settle on an area in highlands a reasonable distance from the city. That way we could commute into town two or three days weekly, but live where the weather is more hospitable. Investigating by web surfing makes Cerro Azul neighborhood sound attractive. Perhaps other areas would also suit. Thanks.
  • Brad
    I seek to improve my skills daily across a wide spectrum of activities and pursuits. I have a passion for this, inspired by samurai culture which values the Tea Ceremony, Flower Arrangement, and Calligraphy, as much as the Sword. The great samurai Miyamoto Musashi observed the value of acquiring skills in a wide variety of areas. Doing so speaks to the notion of mastery and impeccability.

    Though my primary skills are in media/content production (having served as Creative Director for an ad agency and COO for a media company serving the major motion picture industry) -- I've also pursued skills in Sustainable Architecture and Construction; Systems Engineering; and Italian Cooking. I've dabbled in clay sculpting & copper patina, and love downhill skiing and whitewater sports.

    Today I am refining skills in Adobe Photoshop, 3D animation/modeling, and Brazilian Portuguese.

    My overall focus is on the founding of a media/content start-up (Prior to the dot.com boom I founded a media start-up, secured VC funding, then navigated its merger/acquisition, and subsequent sale to a major entertainment company).

    For this new content start-up, I am cultivating relationships on the distribution and product/service branding side of the equation, with an eye on engaging equity and strategic partners, and perhaps VC funding for the venture. To this end, I am preparing materials for meetings scheduled for April 2010.

    Overall, I embrace the world view espoused in the Network Infiltration report. One asks oneself, "How may I assist and serve friends and associates within my sphere of influence? How may I help them solve problems? How may we together improve our communities (both immediate and virtual). How may we help those around us enhance their lives and prosperity when called upon to do so." This -- in and of itself, is a skill -- to glide effortlessly across the tightrope... poised between service versus economic self-interest.
  • Doug
    You Network Infiltration Report is one of the most unique and potentially helpful things I've read in a long time. Thank you.
  • "Mateo"
    another excellent thought provoking post there Simon, especially the questions we should all ask ourselves each day.
    From what I have seen there are many business people out there who I call the "burners and churners" who do deal after deal yet have nothing to show for it after years of hard work, actually this was myself until a few recent events turned my vision of life and business around.
    You are absolutely correct in the sense that relationships in general, like a garden, require time, effort and attention to the small things to grow fruitfully and beautifully. If everyone focused more on cultivating their relationships rather than trying to acquire more I think there would be much more productivity in the world in general.
    We only have a limited amount of time and energy and how one allocates those limited precious resources I believe ultimately determines their destiny.
  • Joel Mitchell
    Simon,
    I've been reading your newsletter for a while now, and this article on growing networking, relationships and skills is spot on....thanks! From my experience, these principles work universally...Asia Pacific, Europe, Africa, South America (and even in the U.S.) Add to that Marshall Thurber's idea about 'hubs' and the world's your oyster. Cheers!
  • Mr. Jan Boxer
    The circumstances are always changing, opportunities are are greater than ever and growing exponentialy and as with all DISOVERIES and opportunities the dengers abbound. jbs
  • bw
    Well, if you must know : )

    Like a "fine artist" might, I consider life a personal project and relationships as distractions which cut into your free time. But it would be rewarding to know people who are, and who value, being independent, having self-command, and pursuing the highest levels of quality and virtue.

    There are always new skills occurring daily for the learning (managing time & organization, navigating the economic/political/philosophical/psychological/geographic landscape). Developing perspicacity and sensitivity to all the facets of existence are foremost in importance, as this enables a greater appreciation for the facts of reality, providing the means for understanding all that which surrounds us, all of that which has made us, and all of that which we could become.

    It's full-time work, and being free to apply oneself to this work is paramount to success in the daily effort. Rather than constant cultivation of relationships, my greater concern is putting up obstacles against the unsolicited relationships imposed by controlling ne'er do-wells. All others are a matter of accident and serendipity.
  • lrm
    BW said:Developing perspicacity and sensitivity to all the facets of existence are foremost in importance, as this enables a greater appreciation for the facts of reality, providing the means for understanding all that which surrounds us, all of that which has made us, and all of that which we could become.

    It’s full-time work, and being free to apply oneself to this work is paramount to success in the daily effort. Rather than constant cultivation of relationships, my greater concern is putting up obstacles against the unsolicited relationships imposed by controlling ne’er do-wells. All others are a matter of accident and serendipity.

    ************************************************
    well,of course...but what Simon is referring to is for people who wish to create multiple flags. That is what his site is speaking to...Perhaps your avenue to do so is through weeding out what isn't or won't work. Others may choose to focus on what to bring into their lives. Both avenues are valid. And of course not all of us are particularly interested in wheeling and dealing or even hanging out with the 'elite' of any country,per se. But Simon's newsletter is focused on sovereignty through multiple flags.
  • Tom
    If you have not read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie yet, I think you would like it and find it useful.
  • Rob
    In recent times, I've been blessed with the opportunity to develop one skill - unlearning.

    It's only been by realising how little I don't know that I've been able to learn, and practice, things I had never had the balls to attempt before.

    Fact.
  • Rick
    Simon,

    The relationship I would love to expand would involve you, Simon, and the partners that you work with. Consider this my 20 second Marketing Infiltration elevator answer to your "What do you do? question:

    "What I have done (and been told I do well), Simon, I would like to bring to the table the next time you and your partners meet:

    I am able to discern nuances within a market's demographics, and effectively tweak marketing strategy to pursue it as it changes. I am also able to see markets, and how best to approach them where others see nothing. Example: Tweaking the makeup of a sports medicine product to better appeal to serious athletes over recreational athletes. Why? Though a smaller percentile: wealthier, and associated with more likely, regular customers.
    Sales more than doubled.

    Or, seeing a market that a major sport ignored, we started with $50 in a cookie jar, and sold $4.5 million in product to World Cup soccer teams.....
    It would be a kick to work with, and learn from you.....
  • lrm
    According to my husband and 9 yr old son,who watched it here in calfornia,it was indeed in miami.

    And,absolutely re: new skills in addition to relationships.
    Especially when going to asia or a few other locales,you can take out a certificate of some sort of training,if you dont have 'money',and show that you intend to create a viable business with your background.
    It also enables you to meet with locals in a given field,at any level,more readily.

    I would even say 'training' for places like italy and spain,which are more conventional in terms of professional niches [underground economies not withstanding,you often are viewed more favorably if you have a background in something you want to do. In the US,it is quite common to just decide you'd like a certain type of business,and get on the job training or pay others to work for you,in contrast.]

    Also,of course,learning a local language of a place you are interested in will invariably be a skill that will open doors for you. And,actually,travelling w/your children is a great way to cultivate relationships and get to know if a city/country/region is right for you. most cultures love children and are interested in foreign children [in my experience]...it's a great ice breaker! lol
  • Michael
    Simon,

    Just curious.....but was the Super Bowl really in Miami???

    Michael
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