Questions: Neil Strauss, Gay friendly countries, packing for travel

by Simon Black · 13 comments

July 2, 2010
Copenhagen, Denmark

I’m in a bit of a rush this morning as I have to catch a plane to Copenhagen; it’s a great, clean city with lots of English speaking people and a reasonable banking system– I’ll tell you more about it next week.

Before moving on to this week’s questions, I want to mention that I’ve recently put the finishing touches on my share of a new ‘offshore strategies’ guide that is going to be published soon by my friends at Casey Research.

We worked very hard to put this together, and I believe our combined efforts have resulted in the best multiple flags overview that exists; I’m very proud of the final product, and I’ll be sure to let you know where you can pick up your copy, hopefully over the next few days.

On to this weeks question…

First, Jes asks, “Simon, I’ve enjoyed reading your letters, and I’ve also just finished reading a book called ‘Emergency‘ by Neil Strauss. It includes the author’s account of obtaining a second passport. I am curious if you recommend that book.

I do recommend the book. Neil is a great writer, and I’d encourage anyone to pick it up and give it a read. Neil tells an important story that we are all completely dependent on a functioning system of complex infrastructure.

We don’t think about, for example, whether or not the lights will turn when we flip the switch. We don’t think about whether or not water will come out of the faucet, if the toilet will flush, if the grocery store down the road has food in stock, or if the gas station will be pumping fuel tomorrow.

We take these things for granted… Emergency tells Neil’s story about making this realization, and the actions he took to do something about it, including obtaining a second passport from St. Kitts.

Neil realized that with only one passport, he was simply a slave to his government… and the second passport gave him new options and new freedom that he never had before.

If you’ve ever thought about obtaining a second passport, definitely read his book. Just don’t call the lawyer he used in St. Kitts– the guy skipped town with clients’ money… I can get you someone more reliable who I trust implicitly.

Next, Norman asks, “Simon- Thanks for your emails. As a gay man in my 50′s I am looking at alternative residency/citizenship opportunities. You may not know a lot of gay people, but where do you find the most gay friendly/tolerant places out of the countries you recommend?”

I’m going to go out on a limb here… it’s not exactly my scene, but I can say that, from a social/political standpoint, your best bet is in Europe. Specifically, Denmark, the Netherlands, Belgium, Iceland, and Spain. Most of these countries grant same-sex marriage rights.

Elsewhere, you might consider Thailand and the Philippines in Asia. In Latin America, consider Uruguay, Argentina, Chile, and Brazil. They’re all pretty GLBT-friendly places

Next, Libero asks, “Simon- How do you pack for your trips? Don’t you have some comfort items that help to make you feel “at home”? Do you pack Backpacking style, as a tourist, or pack everything you need so as to live long term in a place?”

Believe it or not, I go all over the world with just a carry-on and my briefcase. I’ve never been one for material possessions, or to accumulate junk… and I definitely don’t derive comfort from ‘stuff’.

Sure, I have all the essentials– clothes for most occasions including some formalwear, workout gear, toiletries, etc. Other than that, I travel pretty light.

Henry David Thoreau had it right when he said, “A man is rich in proportion to the number of things he can afford to let alone.” You’d be amazed what you can do without.

Understandably, this probably wouldn’t suit most people, but it’s the way I get around. Give it a try, though, just once… on your next trip, pack as light as possible– if something’s not absolutely essential, leave it at home. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised at how you fare.

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  • Bob

    I'm not gay, but here's my take: New Zealand appears to be quite benign toward gays, too. We've had at least one openly gay member of parlaiment (as well as a transvestite). Anti-discrimination laws apply to sexual orientation. There are active gay/lesbian/transgender communities in the big cities, especially Auckland and Wellington, and they get news coverage. NZ is quite PC, and it would not go down well to admit a prejudice against gays in polite company.

    Bob, US emigrant to NZ in 1999

  • Richard

    Although I'm not much of a traveler, I'd like to second the idea of traveling light. Credit goes to Tim Ferris' blog for turning me on to the B.I.T. (buy it there) theory of travel. Whether domestic or International, I travel with just a small carry-on. It is no where near the maximum size for a carry-on. It's very liberating to be able to travel anywhere with such a light load. I would strongly encourage everyone to give it a try.

  • ME

    Sydney has a huge gay scene.

  • jim

    Simon, STOP IT!!!
    Your just teasing us!
    Stop telling us of what a nice lifestyle you have, and start telling us how WE TOO can earn a great 'portable income', and leave the US and start a real life!
    Please!

    • Mikey

      Jim – Simon doesn't talk about what his business is in detail, nor does he give detailed instructions along the lines of “You should do this then this then this”. He does give some guidelines of possible options, but if you look through his previous letters, he mostly advises to keep your eyes open. What he does write about are things to watch for and watch out for based on his experience.

      There are plenty of options available for the open minded entrepreneur out there if you want to set up business out there. Alternatively, there is nothing stopping you from setting up a passive income in your home country and living on that. An income of $1000/month in the US or Australia may be not quite enough to live on comfortably in either of those countries, but would allow you to live like a prince in most of SE Asia, Eastern Europe, and parts of South America.

      There are several blogs out there talking about ways of setting up businesses or passive income in various countries.

      • EEfunk

        Not in Eastern Europe… That's for sure …

      • Aasubscrib

        Guess I have been looking for something for many years. None of which is really portable. I tried Real estate for years, but it is so much pain and requires constant attention.

        I guess until we get a hint on whats available, we will just have to read the newsletters, and dream.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=508063109 Rob Hanly

    Libero:

    I recently did a three month trip to four European countries in the middle of winter with only 6.9kg – I was limited by the first leg of the international journey 7kg. This meant that all I took with me was the bare minimum of clothing and extras.

    The trip took me to a range of places full of all sorts of people and I never had trouble 'feeling at home' – I found that what really made me feel “at home” was building relationships with locals and being able to “fit in” to their world.

  • Maz100

    Simon what do you think of Portugal for residency/passport

  • Thesterlingjoe

    I wonder which place provide equality rights to the people with disabilities. I am deaf. I am in more area of language barrier. For instance, in United States, By law in certain area the vendors are required to provide equivalent function for people with disability. For instance, if I visit doctor and doctor is required to provide a sign language interpreter to cater my needs.

    Is there a country provide this type of service and a good plant for me to plant the flag?

  • Mr. Galt

    Is it true, as I have heard, that a checkbook on a U.S. Bank, which account exceeds $10,000, must be reported on the Customs form as a “Financial Instrument”, or is this only true if there is a filled-out check which is signed and negotiable?

  • Chris

    As 50+ gay men, we are not likely to be flaunting our lifestyle. And if that is the case, you will find that many countries around the world are accepting. You do not have to live in the closet, but with a moderate amount of discretion you will usually be OK. For example, I live on a Hindu island (Bali) in a Muslim country (Indonesia), and have no problem at all. Three nights ago I went to a local restaurant and was surprised to see a group of about 30 gay expatriates and locals enjoying the bbq leg of goat. Asia you will find to be pretty accepting, but despite the occasional horror story most places are tolerable and tolerant.

  • J Willaimson

    Canada has full gay/lesbian equality – including marriage, which, incidentally, isn't called “gay marriage,” but simply marriage.

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