Words to live by

by Simon Black · 67 comments

September 2, 2010
Dallas, Texas, USA

The late, great comedian George Carlin once said, “I have certain rules I live by. My first rule: I don’t believe anything the government tells me.”

Carlin wasn’t a fringe lunatic or conspiracy theorist by any stretch; he was simply an intelligent man who had the courage and curiosity to ask uncomfortable, and usually hilarious questions about public policy.

I was thinking about Carlin a lot last night at a dinner party I attended; a friend of mine was celebrating her birthday, and somehow the conversation gravitated towards politics… trust me, it wasn’t my choice.

One of the guests, a single professional woman in her mid-50s, was a self-avowed tea-party activist. My impression is that she was still rather fresh in her philosophical journey towards limited government, but she was very sure that she did not like the direction of the country and sensed trouble in the greater trend.

At some point in the conversation, she asked me what I thought about the removal of combat troops from Iraq. She must have have been a bit loud, because suddenly the room became very quiet, and I could feel all eyes turning towards me in anticipation of my response.

“Well…,” I began rather uncomfortably, “I think we need to be honest about what’s happening. It’s easy for bureaucrats and politicians who sit in air-conditioned offices to declare an end to America’s combat role in Iraq. But there are still 50,000 troops in Iraq, and a lot of heavily armed locals who don’t like them very much…”

I paused briefly to scan the room for red faces and continued. “Sure, they’ve changed the name to ‘advisory and assistance’ brigades, but a combat troop by any other name is still a combat troop. They did the same thing in the early days of the Vietnam War, sending in ‘advisors’ who fought alongside South Vietnamese forces.”

The temperature seemed to be rising a bit. “Not to mention, don’t even get me started on the private contractors and their ongoing role there. It’s still US defense spending, ergo YOUR tax dollars, going to fund a war now being carried on by unaccountable mercenaries instead of military.”

You could hear a pin drop at this point. “Look, I don’t want to make for an uncomfortable evening… all I’m saying is that this is simple misdirection, a way for the politicians to say that they kept their promises in a difficult election year. But if you think there won’t be any more body bags coming home, you’re fooling yourself.”

And then, almost as if on cue, the party started again and people went back to their conversations as if the whole exchange never happened… it was like a scene from a really bad sit-com.

Many of the guests came up to me later to voice their serious disagreement. A few even complained to my friend (the birthday girl) that she should stop hanging out with people like me who ‘hate the troops’.

The whole episode was rather disappointing; what ever happened to intellectual curiosity? Since when does questioning the motives of the ruling establishment signal such depravity? It’s the most inane illogic I’ve experienced in a long time.

It seemed to me that people would rather stick their heads in the sand and accept everything that they’re told by their leaders– about the war, about the economy, about the currency, etc.

To be clear, this is not simply an American phenomenon, it happens all over the world; the vast majority of people everywhere, whether Chinese, German, Argentine, British, simply don’t ask probing questions to seek the truth… it’s easier to trust in the authorities and label the dissenters as blasphemous.

Perhaps this is simply human nature; it’s been happening for centuries. Even the Greeks, arguably the most intellectually enlightened of early civilizations, sentenced Socrates to death for asking too many meddlesome questions.

Unexpectedly, the experience reinforced something quite valuable to me. Human beings have long identified themselves through groups… families became tribes, tribes became kingdoms, kingdoms became empires, and empires became nation states.

Traditionally, groups defined themselves through common characteristics like geography, language, and DNA. Certainly in the past, people who shared common geography or ethnicity likely shared the same core philosophies and values… but this is no longer the case.

For example, there I was last night, standing in a room full of people who look like me, talk like me, and hail from the same place. Yet, I felt intellectually isolated from everyone. We all had the same passport, yet there was no philosophical commonality.

I have much more in common with my friend Virgis, a philosophizing yoga guru in Lithuania, or my friend Kumar, a hilarious real estate developer in Panama, or my friend Tatianna, a Russian debutant who lives in Thailand.

In 2010, crude divisions like the color of one’s skin, or the color of one’s passport, should no longer bind individuals together. Technology frees us to explore the world, either digitally or in-person, and seek out the people to whom we are the most philosophically aligned.

In an effort to facilitate the gathering of like minds, I plan on implementing an interactive online community as part of the Sovereign Man premium service which we’ll be rolling out towards the middle of this month. It’s something that I’m really excited about, and I’ll have more details to share with you soon.

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  • Maldek

    “‘you hate the troops’”
    That was a nice one, considering where you come from.
    All you said was spot on truth – me having spent time in the armed forces of my (different) country – can see that very clearly.

    “Yet, I felt intellectually isolated from everyone.”
    Of course you did! You were born Simon Black…it just took you some time to realize it.
    There are only a few who think like you do…and it keeps amazing me how similar we think, no matter if the person comes from the US, EU, Israel or asia.

    “It’s something that I’m really excited about, and I’ll have more details to share with you soon.”
    Yes I am looking forward to this “door” as well. Until then,

    all the best,
    Maldek

  • shedigszombies

    I don’t get how what you said makes them believe that you hate the troops. I didn’t get that at all and I honestly agree with you!

  • http://justen.us Justen Robertson

    Ah, political orthodoxy. Personally I just keep my mouth shut at parties when politics come up – I nod and smile. I cannot be honest and not offend the majority of people. I’d rather pretend to not have a point of view than spend the rest of the evening defending myself against ridiculous insults and accusations from barely-literate primates.

    That’s one of the great things about the internet, we can choose to speak to people who at least won’t get offended or irrational when they disagree with you. We’re no longer bound by geography, at least when it comes to conversation partners.

    • Joe

      I feel you. I find myself in a situation where I have to shut my mouth. I love my friends but if I open my mouth and I will lost them. It is hard sometime.

  • bigiron

    It is really interesting (disappointing?) that those folks did not recognize the very obvious point you made and you it well and clearly. Thanks.

  • doftheD

    This is common everywhere……….
    After spending time in many places you might realize how few real differences there are, but how easy it is to be locked into your small “world”.
    In ’91 I happened to spend 6+ months during Iraq 1 in Japan, etc because all biz in the USA suddenly died. Watching the media there was very interesting, and different.
    But when I returned it was if I had missed an entire national experience…totally out of sync, another language in fact. I had no connection to whatever common experience had taken place in the USA. To ask a reasonable question was not appreciated…..or even understood, and I had no foundation for understanding either. The psych can be most amazing and manipulative, by each man and his/hers by others.
    It is an art & science! Illusion is as truth, or truth is the illusion….
    We should all get out of our comfort zone, or rarely will we ever see what is around and within us.

    doftheD

  • Jasontx1

    Welcome to Texas, Simon. I hope you enjoy your stay, however short.

    If you’re southbound on I-35, give a honk as you drive through Waco so I know you’re here.

    I am getting my ducks in a row to engage you in your offer of private consultation. When that happens, perhaps we’ll be able to schedule a meeting the next time you are in the Lone Star State.

    Kind regards,
    J.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=23911034 Ryan Richard

    Simon any chance of us having a meet and greet while your in Dallas??!

  • Will

    Simon,

    I share your feelings 100%.

    And as for speaking “against the troops”, this is the same thing we’ve had for decades regarding teachers.

    If you should dare speak against the failed public school system that sucks up 57% of my outrageous real estate taxes (and plenty more from the state general fund) everyone takes it as an affront against all teachers.

    And just like everyone has a teacher in their family tree, we unfortunately all have a combat troop in our tree as well.

    Why can’t people simply face facts? It’s their money being squandered.

    Think of what those wasted billions (unfinished projects – just in the news, stolen U.S. uniforms for sale to insurgents to use in attacks against us, etc, etc) could do for the economy and disintegrating infrastructure here at home?

    Here in the U.S. our broadband infrastructure lags MANY other countries, none of whom are wasting billions (or is it Trillions by now) on wars that cost lives and accomplish little if anything.

    Keep up the good work.

  • Chameleon705

    Simon, I live in the DFW area so was particularly interested in today’s article…… I agree with your above comments about the political positioning regarding troops in Iraq and the “sheeple” who refuse to question anything they are told in the media…..which I find both perplexing and disheartening. I rarely express my opinion(s) on politics due to the response I typically receive from those around me. Reading your posts makes me realize I’m not alone…. Thanks.

  • BDC

    Couldn’t agree more with the premise that technology now affords us an amazing opportunity to meet like-minded folks anywhere in the world, irregardless of race or national origin. I am a fan of your writings and lifestyle. Just bought (and devoured) Going Global, per your recommendation.

    BTW, I noticed you are running WP and – as you mentioned in this post – you’re working on setting up a membership component to the site. I have experience in both (a) membership sites and (b) membership sites on WP, if that’s the platform you’re going to stick w/when it comes to the membership side of things. FWIW, there are two plug-ins you might already be considering (or developing, depending upon how far down the pipe you are) which have hopefully come across your radar screen previously:

    - http://www.chrisabernethy.com/wordpress-plugins/member-access/ (good, free, easy to use & configure – I’m using it on my personal blog)
    - http://member.wishlistproducts.com/ (heard spotty reviews on this, costs $$, incompatible w/certain plug-ins)

    Hope that helps & try to enjoy your limited time here in the States!

  • Alohamanr

    I think once again, you have hit on something fascinating.
    My family and I recently (in March) moved to Uruguay and are on the path for residency and citizenship- I thought one of the greatest gifts I could give my children besides growing up abroad would be a 2nd citizenship and language. For this, they have entered the local school system here and I am struggling with of what you speak . Uruguay , for the most part, is “in a box”, granted a very lovely box. Interestingly , the uruguayans are some of the most contented people I have ever met and some of the best friends I think one could ever make; this “group- think” is predominate here, along with the “that’s just the way it is”, non confrontational manner. These attributes lead to this stability, great friendships, and contentedness, yet my life has been out of the box for as long as I had a choice about it. I home schooled my kids from abroad and had a 12 year succeeding in highschool and college courses online from abroad, yet this is unfathomable here. So is argument. I am not talking about fighting, but intellectual debate. I am quite certain it exists, it is simply a bit harder for me to find here. Much of this I see through the education system. I was excited about allowing my children to join the local system as it is well thought of and offers free university, including graduate school for citizens, and with the economy going where ever it is, this seemed a definite bonus in ensuring my children’s education, both of whom are ready to take on the world. Time and time again, my daughters learn it is not right or desired to question anything. Whether a geography teacher misspeaks about Hawaii, where we are from, and English teacher confuses the language, or my daughter reports cheating, the response has the same flavor- don’t rock the boat, that is the way it is, etc. When one asks “how are you?” , often you receive the answer ‘Bien, por suerte.” Much is”por suerte”…luck….hmmm…I love luck, no question, yet I have spent my life creating my life; effortfully indulging in out of the box, out loud living. Luck is great, yet I also think we make much of our luck. For me, the universe places opportunities and we say “yes” or “no”. Living by “defaults” may be easier, yet once you’ve lived otherwise, it becomes so much harder. Considering this, their education is now one of the greatest issues on my mind. I so appreciate the stability UY presents. I think it is an optimal place to be , especially during tumultuous times for countless reasons. And I so appreciate a country that offers such to my family and on top of this, education. Yet, I have such difficulty in standing by as they are told not to think out of the ordinary, follow the path, to not push to grow and expand, but be content with the pace of the group and do what it takes to stay together. I am struggling with this. The balance swings to and fro, to and fro as I weigh it all….would so enjoy your thoughts. I appreciate others perspective so much.

    • Lrm4joy

      What an amazing post-as a homeschool mom with children and doing alot of out of the box myself, including abroad over the years…I think you outlined exactly the questions many of us have, in choosing 'this or that'.

      However, I think you answered your own question, in saying 'the universe places opportunities, and we say “yes” or “no”.'

      You can say yes to conforming, or no, and move on, perhaps out of UY…or you can accept the middle ground as a more measured stance, and take the good with the bad in UY. The choices have been presented. Philosophical choice is a great thing to offer your children, as well. Showing them conflict in terms of lifestyle options, shows that it is acceptable to have a time in one's life where one is not 'all knowing'…especially as parents, I think showing this to our kids, that we are not invincible, is a great gift=it also models that, unlike the USA mindset of 'go go go' and 'forge your destiny as you want it, at any cost', there is another way-one that is measured and about compromise at times.

      In the end, cost-benefit analysis always applies, I find.

      You may find that what you thought you were either losing or gaining, is not a loss or gain, so to speak.

      Good luck-thanks for your post.

    • Lrm4joy

      I also want to add-b/c I know this is not Simon's area of expertise (families/schooling,etc), that people need to research the countries SM recommends-

      I do discern freedom as the right to homeschool-it is as important to me as banking laws. When you consider intellectual capital, and investing in a sovereign future, many of us dedicate our lives to our children and this belief in being free. In Brasil, for example, homeschooling is prohibited. http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2010/mar/10032601.html

      And in 'the kingdom of sweden', it is severely restricted.

      It is something to watch-as a country becomes more prosperous economically, or provides a positive business environment-will they also provide an intellectually free environment, not just for the few wealthy expats who can vote with their feet, but for anyone who decides they'd like to homeschool their children, for example?

      • BW

        I followed up on the link and did a little more Googling on Cleber Nunes, the father in this homeschooling case. I found this interesting video where he speaks about his experience to the Mises Brazil society (in his native language, but with subtitles): http://vimeo.com/13654570

        Alohamanr, you ought to watch it, as it is all about the similar struggle you've felt over the atmosphere within which your children are learning. He describes his disagreement with their system and why he homeschooled his children even in spite of their mighty efforts against him. I can very well admire him for what he went through.

    • BW

      I have made the observation lately that stable countries appear to be composed of educated sheeple, while the unstable ones are composed of un-educated sheeple. The ones in turmoil, like the US, contain many types of sheeple in constant conflict over how best to be subordinate. LOL

  • JC

    http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5hwK_CSpBxsNuVUEaDuOwmSSCiqGwD9HVCPLG0

    Hours before the raids, Lt. Col. Andy Ulrich gave his soldiers a pep talk to counter concerns they weren’t on a worthwhile mission.

    “You all are combat troops not doing a combat mission, although it looks smells and feels and hurts a lot like combat,” Ulrich said.

    “Don’t worry about what the politicians are saying because we have a mission,” he added. “The bad part is, we can’t go kicking the doors ourselves and get these guys. We’ve got to kind of convince Iraqis to do it, but the good part is, they’re kind of willing to do it.”

  • Razztraffic

    Hi, Simon, In today’s article you mention Thailand and I know Doug Casey likes Thailand a lot, also. I’m interested in going there to get boots on the ground and see for myself. WHEN is the best time of year to live there? and WHERE in country do you suggest I look at living 2-3 months a year? I’m not looking for residency there or banking there, but just a place to hunker down and ride out the storm in a low profile kind of way, so I’m not looking for any tourist hang outs, but a quiet beach somewhere would be nice. Thanks for any suggestions you can pass along! Ron

  • Steve

    Very exciting news about an interactive online community resource. I was going to suggest it but thought Simon’s plate was already so full he couldn’t possible find time to deal with another thing.
    And on a Dallas note-I use to live there, a girlfriend once said to me while we were talking about traveling and seeing the World, “why would I ever want to leave Dallas, it has everything I could ever want” I was speechless but perhaps Mr Black or someone else can answer her question.

  • Dwayne

    Interesting story.

    Welcome to Texas.

    Do you have pictures of Tatianna, the Russian debutant? ;-)

  • David Evans

    I am working feverishly to gather information enough to take my limited funds and expand in planting flags. The issue is, as you wrote in an earlier report, initially you were very careful to put your money in something with high potential of profit with minimum risk. I think many of us that read you are very much like me, to think I am one of a kind would be totally arrogant on my part. I am 64 and not in the greatest health in the world and am wading through massive amounts of information in an attempt to do the right thing the first time, concerning planting flags because I don’t have enough time or money to screw up (trial and error) as in my lounger years in order to find the best path forward. Sharing your information is very much appreciated…………Thanks

  • http://www.business-solutions-and-resources.com/bob-foster.html Bob Foster

    Simon – I think everything you said at your dinner party is absolutely true. People really need to step back and look at the big picture before they pick out some small ideological segment and carry it around as their mantra. I certainly did not see where you said anything that disrespected American troops. Quite the contrary.

    Regarding trusting the authorities, I think Winston Churchill said it best: “Do not criticize your government when out of the country. Never cease to do so when at home.”

    I'm looking forward to information on your interactive online community.

  • Ray

    Simon, every sentence that you publish are “words to live by”! Every time I get sucked into a low level, propaganda induced, political discussion I start by sharing the big picture to put the smaller pictures into perspective. As soon as I begin speaking in truths, people immediately get defensive and I end up being called a “conspiracy theorist” or that I'm against our soldiers! What people fail to understand is that my frustration lies with the beings, whatever they may be, that are pulling the puppet strings of our alleged leaders. The reality is, these people like to believe that they are in the know, meanwhile their sources of info are all mainstream media. How do we enlighten an entire nation that believes that they are enlightened when really their minds have been brainwashed and pulled in every direction?

  • Chuck B.

    As always Simon, great post. You expressed an informed opinion that did not fit with conventional propoganda and you were immediatley labeled a troop hater. That's ridiculous.

    In this information age we now live in, I find it curious that many people are blindly subscribing to messages being delivered by the government, the media, and the marketing departments of multi-national corporations.

    As someone who has learned the hard way about intellectual isolation on at least one occasion, I like to follow a simple principle from the book, The 48 Laws of Power: “Law 38 – THINK AS YOU LIKE BUT BEHAVE LIKE OTHERS”. It goes on to state: “If you make a show of of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you look down on them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.”

    It's obvious that nobody in this community is out to flaunt their ideas, I just found this passage to be applicable at dinner parties, BBQ's, etc.

  • Zehnhund25

    I am quickly tiring of every single debate of this administration rotating again and again to race or religon. Obama is half black and half white and I DON'T CARE!!!! Obama may be a Christian and he may be a Muslim AND I DON'T CARE!!!!
    Racism and every other “ism” are facts of life that will never fade as long as stupid can breed and raise stupid and as long as those who have suffered stupid forget the lesson they, most of all, should have learned.
    Obama, at the very least, is a socialist and most of his rousing speeches can be found frighteningly similar to those of some not very nice people throughout history.
    Not enough? Does anyone honestly believe that anyone does NOT know that you don't keep writing checks with no money in the bank? Need I go on?
    The, almost, bigger problem than Obama and his cohorts and minions is the absolutely mind bending appearance of this self-agrandizing, proud to be and proud to anounce it ignorance. WOW! Dr. Freud. Paging Dr. Freud.

    • Lrm4joy

      This. is. awesome.

      Love it. Seriously, Zehnhund25-i had to read it more than once so I could laugh at least twice today…(:

    • http://twitter.com/FizzGig3211 Michael Coombes

      @Zehnhund25 – oh thank you for sharing that rant! It made my day too!

  • Roshe!

    great content.

  • MV

    Bravo!
    You raise 2 very interesting subjects here:
    - The discussion of policies
    - Discussion behavior in the USA
    Yet somehow they are intertwined. It was obvious that very early in our nation we favored a system of antagonism of philosophy to bring about reason and a “reasonable middle”. It is also what became the originator of the check and balances system that we still hold dear and should.

    Unfortunately it seems that increasingly so, difference of opinion is mistaken for dissension. It is conducive to the polarization or partisanship in our two main political parties and government bodies, rendering them essentially destructive fighting adversaries rather than polar contributor to the general good.

    But where does it come from. I won't go at length into how I came to this conclusion but in short I think it comes from the increasing development of our competitiveness nature. More and more you hear everywhere that there is “only one winner”, that there is “no place for second place”, that there are but two categories, winners and losers. Well this is not all that bad, but what it does I believe is create a sense that is now prevalent in any discussion that there should be a winner and a loser, there could not be any other outcome.
    Yes discussion and exchange of ides is for one purpose only to identify who is the winner and who the losers are. And of course all winners agree on the same point.
    Sadly the perceptions that not everything can be reduced to a Manichean view is lost, that there could be multiple ways to see and solve things, without a single particular one having to be the ultimate winner and all others losers.
    One of the surest examples to me (coming from a different culture it always struck me as a weird comment, until I understood why) is the phrase often heard “OK we agree to disagree then”, which in itself really says OK it's a tie, like it was a battle in the first place (it shouldn't be but in fact it is).
    There is absolutely nothing wrong with disagreeing, so there is no need to “agree” to disagree. Disagreement should in the contrary be celebrated for it makes us different, able to sort out things, and is the essence of creativity and personality, Again this is exactly how our forefather created this country successfully. It is very interesting to read the exchange of letters between Jefferson and Adams, they disagreed a lot, yet they were very close friends and utterly respected each other's point of view. Yet it doesn't seem to be perceived that way anymore.
    Furthermore if one's point of view is not whimsical, it can certainly withstand intelligent discussion and should, and if anything being reinforced by any dissenting point of view without the need to eliminate or invalidate them.

    So by extension any dissension from the current government opinion, whether in the form of cynicism or god forbid critic, is viewed as an adversarial point of view, a point of view that has to be destroyed. Winning is not celebrated in the mist of dissension but in the suppression of valid opposition.

    And that is why you find more in common with your foreign friends who culturally have not being formatted to be winners all the time and at all cost and understand they live in a relative world where winning is not the sole value. they may or may not agree with you yet they understand and respect your point of view.

    May anybody feel free to disagree and offer a cogent differing opinion.

  • http://www.facebook.com/jaxhere Jack D Feka

    This is an interesting experience which might be partially explained as follows: We have been brainwashed from our early childhood to mouth certain phrases, to praise certain concepts, and generally to never question authority.

    The other day I was thinking about how I (and all my classmates) were trained that we always had to keep informed, to read the newspaper, listen to the news.

    This, in turn, makes it a habit of always allowing the news media to inject into our consciousness the current state of affairs, which, of course, includes the current party line of political thought.

    Many years ago, I stopped reading the newspaper on any regular basis as well as watching the nightly news on TV. I discovered that the world went on just as it had without my getting all upset about all the horrible things happening in the world around me, yet when something happened that had a direct affect on me, or which I might effectively take some action I still learned about it.

    This, I believe, allows me to look at many aspects of what is going on in the world around me without have to brush away the fog which envelops issues which are normally learned about through a constant stream of media pap. When I learn of an issue which interests directly affect me I often ask questions them which people have been conditioned to take for granted because I am coming into the discussion without having it spoon fed to me in little dribbles over time.

    This may not work for everyone, but I'd encourage people who are freethinkers to try it.

  • David

    Simon,

    Your recent experience in Dallas is not unlike my own after returning from Viet Nam in 1972. I felt that it was not possible to tell the truth of what I saw unless I was with a very few friends and acquaintences who had also been there. Even now, I don't think it makes sense to push the matter. For most Americans the truth is still too terrible to bear.

    I do believe in the importance of “speaking truth to power,” as William Penn once put it. But, I would only do so when it has a reasonably productive or personally meaningful purpose for me. The human world is very fragile just now. We are headed into the vortex of a singular cataclism. I think we must take care to contribute to the constructive needs of an inevitable transformation. A new world must emerge as the old goes down in flames. This is our responsibility. Ultimately, I am confident that the outcome will be positive.

    I feel the disintegration is necessary, because I don't think the human race will ever learn the necessary lessons without experiencing a crisis more profound than we can imagine.

    I hope the community of like minds that you seek to gather can embrace the vision of the best that we can be, and to approach it with a positive demeanor and with heads held high. I also hope that we don't have to agree on everything?

    Regards, David

  • John Hand

    I read that Iraq has cost over $800B (more than WWII). I cannot think of a single thing to be proud of. Iraq is worse off now than before. No one learned from Viet Nam. 4,500 dead and 400,000 crippled. And, let's not give them health care; let's give businesses another tax cut instead. Sigh. JH

    • Robert Speirs

      $800 Billion? That's less than Obozo threw in the trash can in less than a year to keep unemployment at under 8%. Worked great, didn't it? And as to combat troops in Iraq, try this next time someone brings the subject up: There never have been any real American combat troops in Iraq or Afghanistan. Only armed social workers. Real combat troops kill people and occupy territory. No stupidity about civilian casualties is allowed to interfere with the mission. So what do you think the outcome is going to be when armed social workers come up against murdering psychopaths to whom civilian casualties are the main goal and hiding behind children is a primary tactic? Right. Seven years of quagmire, just like in Viet Nam and for similar reasons. The civilian police in many of the places I've been – Ecuador, Bulgaria, Turkey, Egypt, just to name a few – are tougher than our so-called “combat troops”.

  • Stainless Steel Rat

    Beyond the lack of intellectual curiosity, I was constantly amazed at how people could be so unwilling to act on the information they had. Most of my friends in the US were at least somewhat libertarian in their thinking, but very few were willing to do anything to deal with the problems they were seeing. One friend of mine would regularly forward e-mails to me saying, “Look what the government is doing now!” After a while, I got tired of them and asked him, “So what are you going to do about it?” He didn't talk with me much after that. He's smart enough to see the problems and the likely outcome, but he just won't do anything about it.

    As for me, I've been out of the US for a month now, and am on my way to permanent residency in a nice South American country. The ex-pats that I've met down here, even if they aren't people I agree with on everything, are at least people who are acting on their beliefs and trying to make a better life for themselves and their families. They're already starting to feel more like my “tribe” than the people I've known and worked with for years.

    • BW

      “He's smart enough to see the problems and the likely outcome, but he just won't do anything about it.”

      This is what differentiates “real” libertarian (or at least creative types), from others: what someone thinks should be done, or what a proper solution is, to the problem of what governments do.

      Sometimes people just get stuck in the muck and can't imagine a way out of the situation, perhaps because it involves so many complex philosophical, religious, political elements. Some will accept that the government agencies are right to continue to take up all responsibility and implement their “official” solutions, even though they seem to desire to live in greater freedom.

      This is when having a larger perspective – from reading history, from learning more about a subject, from visiting and living in other countries, can be so conducive to clarity and better ideas (ideas based on a better grasp of reality, of the way things actually work, the directions which events can actually take, rather than the idealized myths which continue to persist in the imagination).

  • Janisbmail-shop

    I agree with the couple of other Texans responding: the reactions are not unusual for Texas. I'm not originally a Texan but happen to live in a town that has a shrine (oops museum) for George W. So, trust me, I understand. I and my spouse are both engineers and work in the oil industry. We've had the good fortune to work out of the U.S. for a lot of years and were lucky/smart enough to keep our bank accounts and National IDs in those locations. The most interesting thing to me is the steep decline of the U.S. perception overseas. Our first foreign posting was in 1995 and we were welcomed everywhere and Americans were revered people. We came back to the U.S. for a while and left again in 2002. The change in how we were perceived was unbelievable. Even more unbelievable was the change to the U.S. when we returned in 2006. When you have that “global” view, the current situation is much scarier. I think that people who have never lived any where else are the ones who bury their heads—even my own mother who visited several other locations while I was there and LUVED it says that she would never live anywhere else except the good ole USA. You are right when you say that people will only realize too late that they should have gotten out earlier.

  • John

    Simon, fabulous post. I really sympathize with you in regards to being intellectually isolated. I'm a college student so I'm surrounded by quasi-marxists, but even the libertarians/tea party people I know are only giving lip service to the idea of small government. There is no plan, no urgency, no call to action. And as in your experience, the miltary(industrial complex) is sacred to these people. If you dare question the expense and direction of our military policy you get shouted down as some unpatriotic loon. I feel that as ethnic/cultural heritage has largely become irrelevant, nationalism is the next thing to go. In the future people, people will group together on the basis of their ideas.

  • jmerriam

    Simon, thank you for such straight forward insight! All I can say is amen, and amen! I, too, have often been the only questioning voice in a group of people like you described. Glad to know there are more of us out there!

  • http://www.erikjacobs.com Erik M Jacobs

    It seems as if Nationalism is the last bastion of hate for humanity… well, until the next one comes around. As you said, families -> tribes -> kingdoms -> etc.

    It is unfortunate that humanity, at this time, is so closely tied to “nationalism” and nation-states. It is sad that one cannot be a citizen of nowhere, that one cannot simply be human and travel the world as such. It is sad and ultimately ironic in some greater cosmic sense that, based upon the place in which we were born, we are somehow different as humans than others, and that our goings and comings should be restricted and watched.

    If only your online community could somehow be more than just that. If only we could have citizenship in a higher intellectual and moral community.

    I guess I am just a dreamer.

    • BW

      About the online community and what it could be: hear, hear.

      But actually, for me a community and citizenship/membership aren't necessarily attractive in terms of a higher intellectual & moral existence. They are often the very impediment to these interests. Soon enough people start making up these rules of behavior which don't require higher thought, to the point where one's purpose in being a member is no longer of benefit, serving no intelligent purpose, and boring because everyone already agrees with everyone else and there isn't anything new to talk about which isn't repetitive. This happens on mailing lists. Especially when the conversations are mostly about negative things (politics, philosophies) which are bad, unacceptable, wrong, immoral, etc. Everyone can agree with criticisms.

      Then what?

      • http://www.erikjacobs.com Erik M Jacobs

        Touché! And very true.

      • MV

        Yes indeed to some extent that is a possible outcome.
        However if the differences of opinions are respected and encouraged, and the discussions civil, you may find that it becomes a circle of people you appreciate, both in discussion and later in proximity and respect, even if they don't agree (on positive or negative ideas).
        Furthermore with the broadness of this community (international) it would be bound to have all sort of cultural flairs which makes for inherent diversity (the opposite of what you seem to anticipate)
        A community in the end will be what we make of it, it may or may not survive and evolve well, if we're deserving it will, if not it won't (It always will for some)

        Finally , what are the alternatives, do nothing, remain isolated, or find at least a few people we can have nice discussions and exchanges with even if they're to become inbred discussions. And we won't know where it can go until we try.

      • BW

        “Finally , what are the alternatives, do nothing, remain isolated, or find at least a few people we can have nice discussions and exchanges with even if they're to become inbred discussions.”

        An international community of friendships which develops spontaneously as a result of discussions & common interests is good and welcome.

        Being a member of community, though, is not the same as “doing something”; as an alternative to doing nothing. It is not, by itself, a solution to anything (unless the community is physically in a specific locale and has “circled the wagons” for protection).

        Consider that Simon is traveling around with no ties or attachments or loyalties to any community, and he seems to be doing pretty well. He has solved a problem without it. Yet he is not isolated at all. He's got friends in high places ( <g>) and interesting discussions and exposure to different cultures and ideas. It's not exactly a “community” per se, but people revolving around each other as they see the opportunity and have the interest to do so.

        Putting the idea of a community as foremost in the mind leads in the wrong direction – for instance, when you say things like “if differences of opinion are encouraged and respected”. Already, when someone speaks of “encouraging” people to be a certain way, I'm losing interest (oh, thank you, for letting me be myself). They will bring whatever they are to the table, regardless. If they're not tolerable, then they will be “discouraged” from continuing the association by the responses of those who disagree with them, their attitudes, their ideas & methods (or by the Comments moderator !).

        Whether a community evolves successfully depends a lot on what people expect from it or try to make others become within its “boundaries”. (boundaries? We don't need no stinkin' boundaries. LOL)</g>

  • Kj

    George C was my hero. Plain-talkin' and right on the money, every topic.

    As for the reaction at the dinner party, I can only say, “Welcome to the club.” My last visit to the States got me the same response from friends who just don't seem to know what is going on around them. Until they are willing to see the truth, it is unlikely that they will understand their circumstances. We can only hope that they will wake up soon.

  • Richard

    Having been born in central Texas and lived there the first 20+ years of my life, a grin came across my face as I started to read your post.

    Being raised in that environment, I too was ultra conservative and a real red neck during my youth. But… I moved a long way away and started to expand my small (town) mind and I am a much better person for it.

    Texas; a once great state is now a place I only visit every couple of years if that much. That saddens me but it is reality. I grew up and it stayed the same and maybe even got a bit worse.

    Trouble is, this problem exists in most places in the U.S. Nobody wants to have a good discussion, a mild debate or a healthy philosophical debate. These days “you're either with me or against me.” It's a real bummer for folks like us who crave great conversation.

    The stuff taking place at most dinner parties I attend is nothing more that uneducated pea sized brains itching for a fight during dinner of all things!

    It's easy to feel like your the only one in the world who thinks like you do when you are surrounded by the average mental midget playing heir favorite role of victim or worse: judge, jury and executioner.

    Fortunately we have forums such as this to find refuge from the lunacy.

    And lastly….

    I believe George Carlin to be The Great American Comic and he is dearly missed.

  • Rhyolite

    Thanks for the great post. How true that folks cannot find common ground in their struggles. It is clearly those “at the top” who have created this divide in the US by constantly using moral issues to divide the population against one another. It is even backfiring inside the political parties. Truly a mess. I cannot even discuss politics with my own mother who has become so propagandized by the media.

  • http://twitter.com/MikeSmarr Cali Mike

    Thank you Simon.

    Glad to know we have had similar experiences. Often times the “sleepers” awake only long enough to have a thought that generates criticism. Their everyday lives of “someone please tell me what to do, how to think, and how to act”, is pretty pathetic.

    It's a prime example of why some are leaders and some are followers. It's easy to see where you fit in…as for your friend's associates, the writing's on the wall for them in more ways than one.

    I hope your Father is doing well.

    Cheers!

  • Skrabichewski

    A private online community of like minded people is a splendid idea. Count me in.

  • http://twitter.com/lwlmedia Barry Goss

    Great minds, not only 'think alike' — it seems they write alike and around the same time too :)

    Just yesterday, I posted a video tribute to Carlin titled:

    “Do-Gooder Environmentalists:
    http://www.lwlurl.com/carlin

    He was, without doubt, a renegade thinker who looked at the grey area of life.

  • http://twitter.com/filip_rabuzin Filip Rabuzin

    You know this post really hit a note with me. In spite of the fact that one may have many friends or acquaintances there is really very few people you can have a reasonable conversation about such things these days (ones that know how to have one regardless of whether they agree with you or not).

    It seems you have to very choosy where you open your mouth for fear of being socially 'crucified' and labeled as you say blasphemous (or crazy, or depressed, or anti-whatever). I think it comes from a fear that people have that you're somehow going to upset the delicate balance of their straight little world (or delusion) and as such you're a threat to their “reality” (and of course politicians pray on this).

    Framing the issue in an “us vs them” fashion is an easy way for such people to ignore your ideas (they may not really hate you) and continue to move back into their world.

    I'm sure quite a few people here have felt the same way as you did in that room at some point in their lives. Creating a place where such people can get together is a great idea.

  • Lrm4joy

    Great comments here…

    oh, and it's very funny- just today, I happened to come across Ron Paul's response to Obama's speech [august 23 2010] on pulling out of Iraq….I don't have a t.v., so did not see the speech….you don't need much more than a yahoo blurb to get the gist of the c*ap they are telling you each day, though-

    Anyway, how funny that 'tea party' people would be taking comments such as Simon's as 'against the troops'? [or maybe he means most people were just good ole' republicans?]

    Paul's article just does a bullet point list of 'let me count the ways' that Obama is full of it.

    Anyway, I'm not on either 'team'-I just love the truth, whatever it's source. And yea, it comes from surprising sources sometimes-so I read a range of info.

    That bullet list cracked me up….and, sadly, SO many people I personally know are 'let's wait for Obama, so we can hear it from the horses mouth'….And, by 'it', they mean 'the Truth'. Yea, really.

    As Simon said, it's a worldwide phenomena-

    I call it the provincial mindset. It keeps me on the move….

    You just gotta stay a step ahead or what feels like several miles ahead of the 'game' as most people know it….then live your life accordingly. It's not just about money-it truly does all start in the mind. You cannot buy a prespcription or subscription for truth.

    And, I agree with comments regarding 'knowing when to say something'…You have to pick your battles-some adages remain constant. It just ain't worth it in many cases. Then again, I basically just don't enjoy many social occasions-who needs to hang out with people who don't think?

    It's like being around a bunch of vampires, who feed off my energy and enthusiasm.

  • JT

    Hi Simon,

    How does one join the Sovereign Man Premium Service? What is the cost? Does it include the information for the Polish Passport?

  • Mike

    I am grateful for the internet in that it has shown me that I am not alone – however ideologically isolated. And this realization has also taught me that perhaps this isolation is right. How else can change and evolution occur in societies without the random element?

    If we of like mind were able to physically group then would we not become just another group-think clan?

    In this spirit I tend to lean toward the uncomfortable and riskier approach during interactions.

    Respect and love to all the great posts above

  • Ed

    Dear Simon,

    How do we get in touch with your “hilarious” real estate developer in Panama, Kumar? Is he in the Panama Black Paper?

    Thanks,

    Ed

  • R.

    Hanging out solely with people who share your philosophical view is just sticking your head in a different box of sand.

    Better to be challenged and prove your views solid than to be protect yourself from what may prove you wrong.

  • Bob

    Along similar lines, I’m reading J.P. Getty’s How to be rich (not how to become rich, this is not a step-by-step kind of book), who laments in a chapter entitled “the vanishing Americans” how “The voice of dissent has died away to to a barely audible whisper. Present-days specimen of the vanishing breed are generally timorous and emasculated parodies akin to medieval pedants who debated the question how many angels on the head of a pin”. This was about fifty years ago!

    It seems unusually cruel to give people the impression of liberty of speech when in reality one can't say, or worse criticise anything, without having seemingly deeply offending someone to their well-thinking, conformist core. I can't help but wonder what happened to respecting a different opinion and “politely agreeing to disagree”? As Voltaire once put it “I disagree with what you are saying but will fight to the death for you to have the right to express it”. (« Je ne suis pas d'accord avec ce que vous dites, mais je me battrai jusqu'à la mort pour que vous ayez le droit de le dire. »).

    In case anyone is wondering, I'm neither american, nor do I live in the US, and although the US is a little further into PC hell than most country it nicely drags the rest of the so-called developed world down the road with it.

  • Thompsonfamily

    Well done Simon, there are so many people with their heads in the sand regarding many of the worlds realities. I am an Aussie living in South East Asia and spend about 6 months (collective) of the year traveling around Mid East & North Africa and see first hand (reality) what the press obscures and twists to satisfy their Zionist masters.

  • Localhero100

    I have long-ago given up worrying about what any of those mouth-breathers (such as you ran into at the party) think. You should have said what I've said in similar circumstances which is, “I think everybody who put on a uniform and went over there to kill people should be tried for war crimes and the politicians who voted for it should be hung without a trial.”

    Give it a try and see what kind of reaction you get. It's a blast and I've never been more proud.

    • Sarah

      Ah, but then Simon would be tried for war crimes.

  • Jimmy Dunn

    Simon,
    I live in the Los Angeles area, and have had similar experiences espousing my “right wing views” i have even ended contact with one person i considered a friend due to his extremely insulting attitudes “Get your head out of your a.., stop learning every thing you know from Fox news, how can you be so stupid?, Sarah Palin is an idiot and John McCain is an old idiot(My response: “So are you!”, since I'm older than either of them). I finally told him ” A, I don't even watch Fox news,
    B, Put up $1,000 and let's take an IQ test – winner take all!”
    Looong silence, and no more discussion.
    I do, however have friends who are extremely “progressive”(Note, they hardly ever bother calling themselves “Liberals”), and we do have interesting and intellectual discussions, marked by mutual RESPECT! I personally disagree with some of your positions, but see no need to force you to change them.
    Will there be no room in your “gathering of like minds” for other opinions? Currently the US “mainstream media” seems to have been completely in love with Barack Obama and his socialist goals, although some are beginning to see the Emperor's lack of clothes.
    Didn't sound to me like you're “against the troops”.
    I do wonder why someone who is all for “making it on your own”, and sound like a very wealthy individual finds a need to be paid to make recommendations, as revealed in your disclosures – doesn't that put you in the same league with those guys who send me those glowing, excited blurbs about the next penny stock that's going to Many dollars in value, then in Their disclosure reveal that they have been paid a substantial some of money and thousands or hundreds of thousands of shares of that very stock to recommend it.
    I will be curious to see if this makes it through your filters.
    Jimmy

    • Joe

      I don't watch CNN either

  • Jim L.

    Such is Dallas. Vapid to the core. Sports being the only thing that matters. Best you not talk about anythin' more than that. Of course, the people wouldn't know where to begin anyway. The Morning News is a joke. The worst of the culture has sucked the life out of them. I'm glad to be planting a flag in Argentina.

  • john

    My sincerest wishes for good health for your father. Ironically, my friend & i were recalling Geo Carlin yesterday during a conversation and how much we missed his wonderful interpretations on words. Denial seems to be the paramount posture for the faithful that is lends that comfortably numb sensation.
    I truly enjoy this letter & appreciate your time, energy, and vast knowledge you are sharing with all. You are truly a fresh wind that has blown. Will you be addressing any of the issues past & present that have taken place in Argentina? It seems that this is the perfect country to dissect given it's recent issues on inflation, pensions, etc and they have done to remedy these matters.
    I look forward to your launching of the interactive online community program.

  • Kathy

    What I think is funny, is that the people who think others don't know anything are also ones who don't know the whole story.

    There is so much more to the Iraq story that even you don't seem to know. ie, “The Chaney Plan”, the Re-value of the IQD and how it will make some rich.

    I think everyone should do more research on their own, before they listen to others and give advice to others.

    There is so much even the Tea Party does not know. You would have to go back 20-25 years to get most of the story on everything. The real Patriot movement has been around a long time. These newbees need to educate themselves more.

    So do more research before you start telling others anything.

    • Buzz

      Let me guess, you're a PhD.

      So we should all just be quiet on this ride?

      This common dismissal has been used too much.

      The most important things are fairly simple to understand and should be discussed. The truth gets fleshed out.

  • A6a60966

    Hi Simon,
    Obviously, the folks at that birthday party never managed to outgrow their baby shoes in terms of ‘Weltanschauung’.
    It looks like the U.S. is particularly bad in this regard. Just check out the average American’s knowledge level in geography. It’s probably comparable to what one would expect to encounter in underdeveloped regions of “3rd world” countries.
    How can one expect from people with such limited mental resources to have an educated, sensible opinion about what’s going on in the world?
    A. Kovalski

  • Joe

    It is refreshing to read coming from a former U.S. soldier. I support the idea of defense but I don't support of America being a super police to the world. Unfortunately, if we ever find a confidential document from our U.S. government and we will be deeply pissed of what they did to global.

    I question myself, “Is there any chance we can restore”. I find myself sayin no and yes to sovereignty.

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